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Episiotomy… Help or hinderance?

Monday, April 30th, 2007

An episiotomy is a surgical incision in the perineum (the area of the skin between the vagina and the anus).  It is one of the most common surgical procedures in childbirth and is quite surprising considering that in most cases, they are unnecessary and can do more harm than good.  Episiotomies DO have their place in birth, but only as needed and not routinely.

Episiotomies and tears are measured in degrees.  The most common episiotomy is a 2nd degree, midway between the vagina and anus), and the least common and biggest being a 4th degree tear that extends through the rectum (ouch!).   There are also different types of episiotomies - the midline is the most common (extends directly towards the anus)  and the mediolaterial which is a diagonal cut toward either side of the anus.

Why an episiotomy?

These incisions are cut to enlarge the opening as the baby comes out to deliver a baby quickly or to try and prevent a woman from tearing naturally.  Most commonly claimed ”benefits” are: speedy delivery (in the case where birth is immenent, but the baby must be born quickly due to distress or other complications), it prevents tearing, protects against incontenence, heals easier than tears, and protects against pelvic floor relaxation.  Many women are cut because doctors claim the skin is too tight to stretch over the baby’s head and as a result, tearing is going to happen unless she is cut.  Or the baby “needs” to be delivered quickly because birth is taking too long (when there are no complications or fetal distress - we must remember birth is not a timed event).  In many cases, episiotomies are simply routine procedures that our insurance pays for (or that we pay for out of our own pockets).

Surprisingly, many of the above cited benefits have never been proven true by medical research and many of them are actually false.

Did you know that in study after study, one of the most common risk factors for 3rd and 4th degree tears is an episiotomy, the very procedure used to protect women from large tears!

Our skin becomes more prone to tear when it has already been cut.  So, if you have an episiotomy, your skin will be more likely to rip deeper as it is stretched from the baby’s head crowning.  If women were able to birth their babies nice and slow, in positions that would allow better fetal position and delivery,  with perineal support, the chance of tearing reduces dramatically.  If a tear does occur, in most instances it will be small unless your birth involves forced pushing, instrumental delivery (in which case an episiotomy will be cut), poor positioning and rough handling.

Episiotomies are not without their risks.  The most common risks and side effects reported include infection, increased pain, increase in 3rd and 4th degree vaginal lacerations (an extention from the episiotomy), longer healing times and increase discomfort when intercourse is resumed.

That being said, episiotomies do have their place.  For delivery where instruments are required (forceps, vaccum), an enlarged opening will be required.  In many cases if a quick birth is needed to deliver a baby, getting into a squat can enlarge your pelvic opening to allow that baby more space to flex/extend/rotate his way out of your body.  But if assistance is required, an episiotomy has it’s place to enlarge the opening and allow what needs to be done to be done.

Your position during birth can have a lot to do with tearing…  If your doctor suggests a cut, you might suggest changing position if you are able to, or perineal support to see if that helps things at all.  I know with my daughter, I birthed her in the classical “on your back” position and I did tear slightly delivering my 6 lb. baby.  Then delivering my son at home on hands and knees, my 7lb 5 oz baby was born without so much as a skidmark!  This is very common.

Prenatally, you can do the following to help prevent tearing in the first place: eat a healthy diet (healthy skin stretches more easily), kegals (exercises for the pelvic floor), prenatal perineal massage, slowed second stage (careful pushing), warm compresses, perineal massage and support during delivery.  Reducing the chance of tearing will reduce the possibility that your doctor will suggest an episiotomy to prevent tearing :-)

Ack, my computer died

Sunday, April 29th, 2007

As I was getting ready to add new categories and start blogging away on a few different topics, my lap top totally died.  It’s not fixable, but luckily, my wonderful step father still had my other laptop at his house that he fixed up for me so I am now back online with a totally reformatted laptop… And a ton of programs to re-install.  So, when the kids are in bed tonight I will finish personalizing my laptop, and hopefully get back to blogging tomorrow!  Just wanted to let you know I didn’t drop off the face of the earth!

The Bishop Score

Wednesday, April 25th, 2007

What is it?  A pelvic scoring system used to predict how well an induction will go.  Sometimes inductions can fail, especially if the cervix is not favorable.

The Bishop Score evaluates the position of the cervix, the cervical consistency, dilation, effacement and station of the presenting part (baby’s head, usually, or in breech births this would be the bottom).  The higher the score, the more favorable the cervix may be for induction.

Unfavorable conditions include a posterior cervix, with firm consistency, -3 station, 0-30% effaced and 0 cm. dilated.  More favorable conditions would include an anterior cervix that is soft, with -1 station, 60-70% effaced, 3-4 cm dilated or better.

Induction is a medical procedure used to stimulate the start of labor.  In most cases this is used in women who are past their due date, for babies who are expected to be large at birth, or with other complications that require a quick birth of the baby but are not severe enough to require a cesarean delivery.

Induction is not recommended to “plan” a birth date, or for women who are getting impatient waiting on their little one.  As with all medical intervention, induction does carry risks from mild to serious.  Unless medically needed, babies will come when they are ready.  Even the big ones! :-)  There are more natural approaches you can take to help stimulate labor on your own at home, however, none of these techniques will work unless your body is ready to go into labor anyway.

I will post additional details about induction either tomorrow or in a few days.  I’d like to start some categores and blogging on a few topics and turn this blog somewhat into a “childbirth education on the web” type of deal.  It won’t take the place of a good childbirth class, but it will certainly (hopefully?) help someone who is unable to take a class for whatever reason, or just for those who want more info!

Hey moms and dads

Tuesday, April 24th, 2007

I wanted to share with you one of my favorite resources for natural family living including conception, pregnancy, birth and babies at www.mothering.com  They have a wealth of info, including a discussion forum on every possible topic you could think of pertaining to natural family living.  It’s awesome!

More birth ball tips and ideas.

Monday, April 23rd, 2007

More birth ball tips and ideas.

- Use your birth ball later in pregnancy to encourage a good fetal position. Use the birth ball in place of chairs. You can shift your weight, rock and sway as needed, all while still staying upright. You want to avoid slouching, leaning back and crossing your legs later in pregnancy to encourage a good fetal position (to allow for a quicker, easier labor and birth!) and the birth ball avoids bad positions!

- During labor, it encourages fetal descent while mom stays upright taking advantage of gravity and helps keep baby well aligned in the pelvis.

- Provides perineal support without undue pressure. You can sit on a warm compress to encourage perineal relaxation.

- may encourage a faster labor by encouraging favorable positions for mom and baby, keeping mom upright and working with gravity.

- Birth balls can also be used to help encourage rotation of a posterior baby

- Counterpressure is easy to do while mom is leaning over a birth ball, mom can maintain hands and knees position for longer periods of time without having to maintain her own weight on her wrists.

- Birth balls can be used during labor AND birth.

Many hospitals are now keeping birth balls on the maternity floor. Ask your hospital about it if you’re interested, or buy one of your own. The balls are nice to sit on after having your baby as it’s a cushy place to sit, rock, sway and bounce. Birth balls can be helpful for calming babies if mom or dad sits on a birth ball and gently bounces on it!

Birth balls

Sunday, April 22nd, 2007

Birth balls are a wonderful tool for laboring. These are the professional slow deflate, latex free varities you sit and rock on - NOT the big toy balls you find in the toy section of your local store!  When using a birth ball, make sure it is properly inflated and that the stopper is in properly (very important!).

When in use, the floor should be free from any objects that could puncture the ball.  Be sure that you practice using the birth ball before labor - it can take a moment or two to get aquainted with it.  Be sure that you have someone close to grab onto if needed, or a counter or bed that you can hold on to for stability.  Always use a chux pad between you and the ball to avoid skin to ball contact (considering the ball will be rolling around on the floor, this is important to keep yourself clean)

What is the birth ball good for?

Slow labors, posterior babies, hands and knees position (lean over the ball, and you avoid putting your weight on your wrists on the floor!  you can also roll back and forth i n this position with ease), supported squat, pelvic rocking, a baby that is still high up, bouncing, rocking, etc.  Birth balls also allow easy access to the womans back for massage, and is an excellent choice for a mom who is being monitored (by electronic fetal monitoring) to maintain an active and upright position next to the bed, without getting tangled on the cords and having to stay bedbound (unless medically necessary).

In my next post, I’ll share more ideas and tips for using birth balls. 

Go Green with Baby

Friday, April 20th, 2007

In honor of Earth Day coming up, I thought it might be a good idea to post some ideas that could help you contribute to protecting our earth, that are baby related.

Breastfeed your baby if at all possible.  This is a no brainer.  You will eliminate the need for formula, bottles, nipples and the packaging they come in, all using our earths resources (when you can provide this renewable source of food for free!).

Cloth diaper your baby.  Not only will you save a huge amount of money during your childs diaper uses but they are re-useable and after their life as diapers… Use them as cleaning rags!  Cloth diapers can also come in organic fabrics.   If you must use disposables, consider using eco friendly diapers such as Tender Care, 7th Generation or even a disposable/cloth combo called gDiapers.

Wear a sling (make or buy, organic fabrics are available!) and carry your baby as you walk to do your errands (of course if your errands don’t involve bags of groceries – but if they do and the bags are light, you’ll have both hands free to carry them if you sling your baby!). 

Choose green (nontoxic, biodegradable) cleaners, or make cleaners yourself using lemon, baking soda and vinegar.  Personally, we use the Shaklee “Get Clean” line and I can’t tell you how much money it’s saved us and how good of a job it does on our house.  Honestly, it does better than the chemical-laden alternatives at the store!  I do have some cleaner handbooks lying around here, if anyone is interested in learning about them I can give one to you! 

You might consider finding baby clothing made from organic fabric.  Of course, this will tend to get pricey, but you can also pick this kind of clothing up second hand!

Use natural babycare products, like shampoo, lotions, oils.  Be sure to find something that is environmentally friendly so it isn’t harming our earth when it goes down the drain.

Choose toys that are made from environmentally-friendly companies. Avoid the plastic stuff.  For toys, we LOVE HABA toys, and they are a company that really keeps the environment in mind while producing them.  You don’t’ find that too often!

When your baby is old enough for solid foods – make your own home made baby food using organic fruits and veggies.  An AWESOME site I recommend is www.wholesomebabyfood.com  Their entire site is available in a very low cost ebook and I have gotten so much use out of that book – I bet you will too!!  Plant your own garden that you can make your own baby food from…. Yumm!  Homemade food can be kept in the fridge for a few days, or make up a bunch, freeze it in ice cube trays (one ice cube equals about 1 serving when you first start solid foods), then put in freezer-safe containers to store.

Make or buy your own canvas bags for when you go shopping for baby stuff (or anything, including grocery shopping).  Avoid the plastic grocery bags!

Birth Bag Basics

Thursday, April 19th, 2007

A few items you might want to pack in your birth bag…

  • Massage tools: lotion, massagers, tennis balls, rolling pin with a hand towel wrapped around it.
  • Extra pillows
  • Lip balm
  • Hair brush, ties, barrettes
  • Comfortable clothing (some hospitals will allow you to by-pass the gowns)
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Breath mints for your partner
  • Hot/Cold packs
  • Healthy juices and nutritious snacks if your hospital allows you to eat during labor (we’ll get to this in another post!)
  • Radio/CD player and your favorite music
  • A watch with a 2nd hand
  • Money and change
  • Socks
  • Robe and slippers
  • Birth ball
  • Focal point, visualization script/tape, list of affirmations or scripture
  • Favorite childbirth books
  • Your birth plan (a copy should already be in your file)
  • Camera, extra batteries, film, video camera, tapes
  • Baby book
  • Nursing bras
  • Clothing for baby, going home outfit
  • Phone list
  • Clothing for mom and partner (you will most likely still fit in maternity clothing, so avoid your pre-pregnancy jeans you’ve been dying to fit back into)
  • Car seat (already installed and both you and your partner should know how to use it!)
  • Personal hygiene items for mom and partner
  • Blanket for baby

What did YOU find most helpful?  During my labors I’ve been pretty hands off, but the life saver has always been birth balls (to roll, sit and bounce on, lean over, etc.), and hot compresses while baby is crowning.  The hot compresses relieved the “ring of fire” women experience as the baby is stretching the perineal tissues, helped to prevent tearing, and just plain feel good at that moment!

Resource for Depression

Monday, April 16th, 2007

Depression After Delivery, Inc. helps women deal with feelings surrounding pregnancy and childbirth - pregnancy and postpartum thought and mood disorders.  If you are experiencing depression, the “baby blue’s”, , postpartum obsessive compulsive disorder, postpartum postpartum depression or psychosis, contact your health care provider and DAD, Inc.

www.depressionafterdelivery.com / 800-944-4PPD

Freeze meals before you give birth

Friday, April 13th, 2007

Today is cook and freeze day.  I’m noticing things in my fridge are starting to look like they need to be eaten or used soon, and I hate to waste food.  I don’t do “once a month cooking” simply because I would never get that much food cooked in a day or two with the other demands of keeping home and children.  But on days when I have a bunch of food and they need something done with it, I cook as much as I can, then freeze it.  I have a foodsaver so thawing and heating the food up again in the bag is very easy (on the stove).

This is a very helpful thing to do in your last weeks of pregnancy (or really at any time).  Cook your meals, complete with sides, freeze in seperate containers, label contents and date you’re freezing, then put it in your freezer.  Yes, freshly cooked home made meals do have more nutritional value. but I guarantee you, homecooked, frozen and properly thawed food will have more nutritional value than procesed food or fast food - and after giving birth your body needs those nutrients!

We have a deep freeze, so I like to buy things in bulk.  We buy ground beef in bulk and usually I seperate it into 1 pound chunks and freeze them.  Today I took half of the beef and made up 1 lb.packages of seasoned beef in our most commonly used seasonings.  I browned it first then made up some taco meat and then plain beef with our typical seasonings that can be the base of most any meal we make that includes ground beef.  I left the other half plain for hamburgers or the occasional meal that doesn’t involve the seasonings we nearly always cook with.  So now if we want taco’s, it’s just off to thaw and heat up the taco meat, cut up our veggies and dinner is done.. No more burning beef in the cast iron skillet because I had to change a diaper or clean up a mess.  I like it :-)

Our celery is looking a little limp, so after I revive it by cut the bottom off and place itin a cup of cold water and stick it back in the fridge again, I am going to make some cream of celery soup and possibly some cheddar cheese soup too.  I home make nearly every ingredient in all of my meals including soups, and those two soups go in a lot of the meals I make!  So I make up several batches and freeze them in the correct size I’ll need.

I’ve also made up bread dough and have it freezing after the first rise.  I enjoy making home made bread, but I don’t enjoy the 10 minutes it takes to knead it when I have two young ‘uns.  I don’t think I ever have a 10 minute block of time to do anything without interruption, and kneading dough is no different!  So I’m hoping that even thoug it’ll take longer to bake the bread having ot allow it to thaw andrise a second time, I think it will be less hands-on work.  We’ll see.

One way you can do this without going out of your way is to make double the servings you’d normally make.  Eat dinner that night and freeze the rest.  You can freeze just about anything, except I’ve found most potato things don’t freeze well, and occasionally pasta’s as well though lasanga and stuffed shells do good.

Your family will appreciate the stocked up food in the freezer, and you will too, when you can have a yummy home made meal despite the chaos of a new baby!  Good food will help give you energy, help keep up your milk supply, help you deal with the emotional and mental changes you will go through as a new mom, and keep you healthy. By feeding your family healthy meals, if you have other children at home their mental health and behavior will most likely be improved along with their general health!