July 1944

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According to the handwriting on the back of this photograph it was taken in July of 1944 somewhere in Toledo, Ohio. The beautiful young woman in the photograph is Mrs. Robert L. Gorrell and she is 23 years old. The apple cheeked baby is Robert L. Gorrell, Jr. or Bobby. He is 14 months old. When this photograph was taken Robert L. Gorrell, Sr. was serving in the U.S. Air Force during World War II. He was overseas and I have been told he had a copy of this picture with him.

Mrs. Robert L. Gorrell was the former Ellen Matthews. She was barely five-feet tall but was strong, athletic and agile. Legend has it during pep rallies at Scott High School they’d pick a male student to kick a football the length of the field house. As a joke, the young high school-aged Ellen was selected to kick the ball. Everyone in the crowd expected the tiny brunette to daintily fumble the task. Wrong. Ellen was Irish and fiery and she kicked that ball to the opposite wall. The shocked and delighted crowd in attendance at that long ago 1939 era Scott High School pep rally cheered little Ellen. Later, Ellen would be one of the first women to be offered an athletic scholarship to Toledo University. But of course the war interfered with those plans.

Ellen was my grandmother and Bobby is my father. I don’t look like Ellen, I wish I did. She was the grandmother who would let you do anything you wanted to at her house. She would let me stay up late and watch t.v. in her “rumpus room.” She laughed her head off when, as a 3 year old, I told her Shirley Temple movies bugged me. We watched Johnny Carson instead. Her athletic prowess came into play for me when she taught me how to do a back-bend and come back up. She did not “throw like a girl” and tried to teach me the same.  Alas, I do “throw like a girl.”

If you ever shopped at LaSalle’s (now Elder-Beerman) in Westgate you might have met Ellen. She worked there almost until she died. She passed away in 1992. We’re still expecting her decorated cookies every Christmas and her to answer M’ello when we call on the phone.

But I have a lot of stories about Ellen and Robert L. Gorrell, Sr.  and the whole famdamily as she used to joke. Maybe I’ll tell a few here now again. M’bye for now.

P.S. Over at Befrazzled you can read about the other side of my family, the Polish side. I thought I better start with the Gorrells/Matthews before Robin got the jump on me. :)

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10 Responses to “July 1944”

  1. LunaPierCook

    Wonderful story, beautiful photo. Thanks for sharing with us!

  2. Rebecca Regnier

    Thanks LPC and I’m glad to hear you’re alright after your limo accident.

  3. Robin

    Uh…no fair! I’m posting on their birthdays. Quick…when was her birthday! Do you know? Do ya? Didn’t think so. April 16th. (Er…I think)

    I was totally her favorite. ;)

  4. Rebecca Regnier

    Sorry about the birthday thing. Every blogger for themselves.

    And you’re my favorite too!

  5. Robin

    Aw shucks thanks :) Meanwhile, Dad = cutest baby ever!

  6. Phyllis

    I think we tend to think of our grandparents as, well, grandparents. It is so great that you have some of this oral history to share with your kids (and all of us!). Not that I’m telling MY kids what I did as a teenager… I’ll save that for my grandkids.

  7. Cheryl Engfer

    Thanks for sharing, very nice.

    I used to love to hear the stories my grandparents would tell. Luckily Mark’s mom is still around to share with us.

    No kidding Phyllis, I’m not sharing my stories with mine either. Bad enough when us cousins get together and Kandy spills some of our “great adventures” to my daughter–so she’s ask to hear Kandy and Cheryl stories ;) YIKES

  8. RebeccaRegnier

    Thanks for the comments guys.

  9. LunaPierCook

    My kids want me to make a DVD of my dad’s stories so they can fast-forward through the stuff they’ve heard soooooooo many times before. ;-)

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