When I heard about the term “labor” for childbirth, I assumed it meant pushing the baby out. As in, when someone says “how long were you in labor?”. I did not realize that there are actually three stages of labor and did not learn the specifics of that until I took my childbirth class when pregnant with my first baby.
It is important to learn the lingo of childbirth since your doctor, the hospital and other experienced women will be using terms like first stage, second stage and third stage labor. There are also very unique characteristics of each stage of labor and becoming familiar with them will help you understand more about your own birth.
Every woman’s labor is unique and the signs of each stage vary from woman to woman. Typically, labor can on average last 12-24 hours for a first pregancy, and shorter with subsequent deliveries.
First stage: Contractions & Dilation
First stage labor is from the start of true labor to the completion of the dilation of the cervix. It is the longest of the three stages of labor. It can be broken down into three stages of it’s own: early labor, active labor and transition.
Early Labor
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cervix gradually effaces and cervix dilates
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mild to moderate contractions
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30-60 seconds long
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5-20 minutes apart
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may have bloody show (mucous plug, spotting or discharge), runny nose, several bowel movements, need to urinate frequently
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pressure or crampy feeling
The contractions at this time do no space out from changing activity. It generally feels better to walk (helps to open the inlet of the pelvis) around. Rest when you can. Mom may be talkative, anxious and smiling. It may be helpful to take a shower or bath, listen to relaxing music, have a gentle massage, try slow, deep breathing, change positions, drink water, juice or other clear liquids, eat light, healthy snacks or apply ice packs or heat to your lower back
Active Labor
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5-8cm dilation
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stronger contractions
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60 seconds long
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5 minutes apart or less
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may be sweating, uncomfortable, feel increased pressure and fullness in pelvis, have backache
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bag of waters may break
The contractions are intense and close. It is hard work and takes concentration to stay relaxed. It may feel better to still walk or you may feel the need to lie down. Sitting on the toilet often brings comfort. Also, changing positions, rocking in a rocking chair, rolling on a birthing ball, taking a warm shower or bath, placing a cool, damp cloth on your forehead are natural pain relieving methods. Make sure to relax between contractions as well.
Transition
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contractions may double peak, become irregular or stop completely for a while
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you may experience intense emotions including confusion, panic, disbelief and fear
Transition can be the hardest part of labor but it doesn’t last long. 1/3 of women experience difficult transition, 1/3 have a mild transition and 1/3 have no transition at all. It is commonly during this time when a woman will say “I give up” or “I can’t take it anymore” or even request pain medication but it only takes an average of 10-30 minutes to get through this time and then you will be pushing when the pain is relieved totally by pushing.
Second Stage: Pushing
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begins when cervix is fully dilated to 10 cm and mother has urge to push
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expulsive contractions
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usually space out more
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may get a “second wind”
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a lot of pressure in your bottom area
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burning sensation as baby’s head crowns
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may experience a tear to the perineum
This stage continues until your baby passes through the birth canal, vagina, and is born. It may last two hours or longer. Still try to rest between contractions and save your strength for pushing the baby out during the contractions. Your support person can help you find the most comfortable position, continue to offer encouragement, and help you focus on your breathing.
Third Stage: Placenta delivery
The last stage of labor begins after the baby is born and ends when the placenta separates from the wall of the uterus and is passed through the vagina. You are probably holding your baby and enjoying those first precious moments of bonding but a lot is still going on in your body. Uterine contractions will help expel the placenta (breastfeeding helps with this), usually within 20 minutes of the delivery of the baby. You may have some bleeding, chills or exhaustion. If you had some tears or an episiotomy, your physician will do the repair.
which is a long, thin, crochet needle-looking tool that is inserted through the cervix and snags and breaks the amniotic sac. When the bag of waters is ruptured, the amniotic fluid, which is full of the hormone prostaglandin, comes in contact with the cervix and may or may not produce stronger, more regular contractions.