Graciously written by mommy Gina (thank you for sharing):
THOMAS EUZEFFER DICKERSON IV (ZEF) – BIRTH STORY
Due Date: September 28, 2006
Born: October 6, 2006
8 lbs 15 oz 21 ¼ inches
Friday, 5:38pm
Born at Home
Midwife: Michele Fitzgerald, CNM
Sunday, 9/24 – Contractions started at 6:30pm after intercourse. They were 3-5 minutes apart and lasted less than 60 seconds in length. I thought this was going to be the day so we called the midwife. Kristen and Sam (Michele’s assistants) came over at 11pm. An exam reveled that I was only 3cm dilated and 90% effaced. The contractions stopped at 2am and Kristen and Sam left at 8am the next morning.
Thursday, 9/28 – I had my 40 week apt at 1:00pm. After an exam showing that I was 3-4cm dilated the contractions started at 4pm. I only had 2 really hard ones and nothing was timable or consistent. They stopped by 11pm.
Friday, 9/29 – Light contractions started at 7:45pm after intercourse. Stopped at 11pm.
Sunday, 10/1 – Contractions started at 12:45pm after intercourse. Stopped at 2pm.
Thursday, 10/5 – I had my 41 week apt at noon. Exam showed 4 cm dilated, head tucked and water bags bulging. I asked for some natural remedies on how to get this baby out! Advice to start contractions – intercourse, herbs, and breast pump. Michele didn’t think I would make it to 42 weeks but said that I could schedule an ultrasound apt for the next week. On the way home Tom and I stopped by the pharmacy and bought the herbs. We had intercourse at 2pm and the contractions started at 2:30pm. I started the nasty tasting herbs at 2:45pm and used the breast pump at 5pm. Contractions stopped at 5:30pm L
Friday, 10/6 – By this time I was feeling like I was never going to have this baby. I was 8 days overdue, already had 5 false labors produced by intercourse or vaginal exams, and the contractions just weren’t lasting long enough or coming hard enough. As uncomfortable as I was and as much as I wanted this baby out I still wasn’t willing to have him in a hospital. I knew that they would have never let me go this long without major intervention. I was still in the mindset of having a natural childbirth. Contractions started at 6:30am and lasted all day long! I started taking the herbs again at 9am and used the breast pump at 10am and 11:30am. I got in the hot tub that morning and called Tom and Michele at 11am (from the hot tub) to let them know the status of my contractions. They were still about 3 minutes apart and around 30 seconds long. I was able to walk around and get things done around the house so I knew that they were not very intense. They were consistent though. Tom came home from work at noon and said that I should probably rest so I tried to lie down and take a nap. At 1:00pm the contractions started to feel more intense and with some back pain. We called Michele back and she said she would call Kristen and Sam and they would all be there shortly. On her way in she called and told me to fill the bathtub and get in and lay on my left side to slow down the contractions until she got there. She arrived around 3pm, Kristen at 3:30pm and Sam at 4pm. Because I had chosen a private birth this time around my mom left with Sarah around 3:30pm. Michele gave me an exam at 4pm and I was 6 ½ cm dilated so she broke my water. The intense contractions started right away!!!! I labored in the shower through 3 of them and then went to the rocking chair for the rest. I felt a strong urge to poop (really push) so Michele moved me to the bed. I pushed his head out in just a few pushes. When I tried to push his shoulders out he would not come. He was stuck! After some intense pushing, yelling and screaming by me Michele reached in and pulled his shoulders out. Tom pulled the rest of him and after a few minutes cut the cord. Zef had a very short umbilical cord which is why he came 8 days late and was stuck in the womb during the pushing phase. Average cord length is 21 inches long and his was 13 inches. I birthed the placenta while Zef was getting looked over and was able to breastfeed him within an hour of his birth. Due to the excessive bleeding after Sarah was born I had a shot of Pitocin right after Zef’s birth and a Methergine pill a few hours later. Fortunately, I did not have any excessive bleeding this time. Everything turned out wonderful and I didn’t have any tears or cuts. Michele and Sam left around 8pm and Kristen left around 9pm. We had a wonderful evening together at home just the 3 of us. There was a full moon that night.
Minor complications:
- During pushing stage baby’s shoulders were stuck due to short umbilical cord.
- Strep B positive
- Gestational Diabetes