Graciously written by mommy Gina (thank you for sharing):
TITUS EZEKIEL DICKERSON – BIRTH STORY
Due Date: June, 1, 2009
Born: May 24, 2009
9 lbs 2 oz 19 ¾ inches
Sunday, 3:07 am
Born at Home
Midwife: Ann Crowell, CPM, LM
I went to take a nap at 1:00 pm on Saturday, May 23rd and felt my water break (huge gush) at 1:30 pm. I called Tom right away and he said he was on his way home. He was working in Canyon, Texas 6 ½ hours away! I then called my midwife Ann and after asking the standard water breaking questions (how much water, what does it smell like, look like, etc.) she said to call her back when contractions start. At 5:30 pm I start to feel some back pain with minor contractions. At 5:45 pm I have a little bloody show. At 6:00 pm I start to have a few consistent light contractions that are about 10 minutes apart so I call Ann at 6:30 pm with an update. Tom arrives home about this time. He made it in 5 hours! Think he sped a little??? Nothing consistent for the next 5 ½ hours so we do our regular nightly routine with the kids – eat dinner, read stories, and put them to bed. I take a shower and try to get some sleep around 10 pm. Consistent contractions start at midnight so I wake Tom to start timing them. At 1:10 am I call Ann to give her an update. She listened to me breathe through a few contractions on the phone and we all decided that I would call her back when they were stronger and longer in duration. Looking back now – she should have come over then! At 1:37 am Tom decided to stop timing them and get some sleep. I sat in the glider next to the bed (my favorite labor spot) and worked through contractions as I listened to Tom snore J At 2:20 am I woke him up and told him that it was intense and hurt and to call Ann. He timed 3 contractions first and they were about 45-50 seconds long and about 2 minutes apart. He called Ann at 2:27 am and told her to come over. She lives about 40 minutes from our house. Abby her assistant lives less than 10 minutes away and Ann said she would call her to come right away. During some of the really intense contractions I would have uncontrollable shaking all over my body and I threw up once. I was working through some intense contractions on the glider when all of a sudden I felt my body want to push. I looked up at Tom and said “Tom” and before I could say anything else he said “DON’T SAY IT!” as he jumped off the bed and tore off the sheets to get the bed ready for birth. It was not ready yet because I had planned on birthing in a birth chair that was in Ann’s car. He very quickly put on the pads and sheets as he called Ann again to tell her that I was pushing. It was 2:50 am. She told him to get me on the bed. Instead of pushing with the contractions I was trying to breathe through them but my body had the uncontrollable urge to push and was doing it anyway. He looked at me and told me to get on the bed and I said that I didn’t want to. He got me there anyway and looked to see what was going on. My perineum was bulging and a little bit of head was starting to show. He called Abby to see where she was. It was 2:55 am. I was in a semi-laying down position on my right side still trying not to push (but couldn’t help it cause that’s what felt good to do) through the contractions. Abby was right around the corner from our house and came into the room within a couple of minutes. She took over for Tom, told me to take a deep breath for my baby and to push with the contractions. She quickly put on gloves, got the oil and began assisting the crowning. She told Tom to call Ann. It was 3:01 am. When Ann walked in a couple minutes later the head was out. Ann repositioned me on the bed a little and assisted the rest of him out. Because the repositioning and assisting was quite painful I let out a really loud scream and Tom was up at the top of the bed comforting me when he came all the way out. Titus Ezekiel Dickerson was born at 3:07 am and I heard Tom say “It’s a Boy!” Mom heard me scream and came in the room just after he was born. They put him directly on my chest and waited for the cord to stop pulsating before Tom cut it. I pushed the placenta out at 3:21 am. Third big baby and no tears! I was able to hold and nurse Titus for over an hour before we took our herbal sitz bath together. It was a wonderful (and quick) birthing experience!
Minor complications:
- Some minor postpartum hemorrhaging – took Methergine pill
- Was dizzy after getting up – had to lay back down for a little longer
- Shaky with afterbirth contractions – threw up orange juice
Notes this pregnancy:
- One sonogram at 19 weeks
- No diabetes testing
- Strep B test at 36 weeks – results not back at time of birth
- No vaginal exams
No eye ointment or vitamin K shot at birth