I only wanted a Double Cheeseburger!

Posted on Monday 31 March 2008

Imagine pulling up to your local McDonald’s drive-through window to order dinner. When the clerk opens the window, she lets out a blood curdling scream and takes off like a bat out of hell toward the back of the restaurant. All the while, your sitting there and your fries are getting cold.

A phobia of Little People? I am wanting to be nice, so add your choice of words in this sentence:

Are you _________ kidding me? I mean, seriously! What ___________ rock did you out crawl out of?

I am going to create a word for the “Fear of Little People Phobia”. You shall from now on refer to it as

DWARFPHOBIA” *This word may not be used with my explicit consent! I own it, it is my copyrighted material.

Okay so the real word is Nanosophobia. It is the fear of dwarfs and m!dgets.

I could go on, but I’ll stop.

And I continue to provide you with offensiveness, Ever see a little person at Target? Apparently, they have a website dedicated to little people.

*Edited: I have removed the link to the website. It served it’s purpose to show you how cruel, immature and ignorant people can be. Hopefully in a few weeks the site will not longer exsist.

Tonya Sweat @ 5:41 pm
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New Blog Alert!!

Posted on Friday 28 March 2008

Guess who has a blog?

Candi, Bryan’s Ya Ya!!

Swing over and take a gander and show them a “little” love!!

Hands on A Miracle!”

Bracing…Part 2. Your suppose to be a Snake…

Posted on Friday 28 March 2008

We got Knoah’s new brace yesterday! *Props to the Insurance company!*

It is quite a sight. I should of asked what the name of it is, but I guess it doesn’t matter. He has to wear it to straighten his spine. Doctor’s appointment are basically all day events. An hour drive, 3 hours there, another hour home, now it’s time for dinner. Geez!

I must say, he looks pretty straight to me! He doesn’t like it, but he seems more comfortable in this one than his old one! I chose a snake skin design for his brace. As the previous video shows, he crawls like a snake, so it couldn’t be more appropriate.

They cut out the center to accomodate his rather large, growing belly.

It straps in the back. In a few weeks we will add two small pads on either side of his spine to start putting pressure on his Kyphosis, encouraging it to stay align with the rest of his spine.

The cut of this brace allows more mobility of his shoulder blades and it doesn’t restrict his upper body movement, but is still encouraging the three pressure points. One on his chest, one on his hips and one on his spine.

This brace will hopefully prevent him from having surgery. A Laminectomy and Spinal Fusion is where the spinal column is revealed and in Knoah’s case, one vertbrea would be removed. Then a series of rods and pins are drilled into the spine to create an artificial spinal column to immobilize his spine.

Tonya Sweat @ 9:31 am
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Is he walking yet?

Posted on Thursday 27 March 2008

I wish!!

He is still crawling! Children with Achondroplasia typically start crawling anywhere between 8 months and 14 months.

They use several different methods to get around. Usually, they do not use the traditional form of crawling, because their thigh bones are not long enough and it causes their big bellies to rub on the floor. So they have to find a different way to get around.

They can Army Crawl, Snow-Plow, Reverse Snow Plow, Spider Crawl or Butt Scooting.

I will show you two ways they crawl. Knoah currently is using the Army Crawl and is transitioning into the Spider Crawl. When Jacob was learning to crawl, he Spider Crawled. Hannah, traditional Crawl.

Warning: Ignore the obnoxious voice, it’s just me, I tend to sound like a tiny, yelping puppy…

Tonya Sweat @ 9:20 pm
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Who says babies don’t come with a book?

Posted on Tuesday 25 March 2008

“Hey, you guys drive standing up, right?” Hardee Harr Harr. *Eyes Rolling*

When I check my email today, I found Candi left this message:

We are having an MRI done today at 3:00. Tonya - we will call you
tonite and let you know what the results are. Bryan’s dwarfism specialist
came back into town after the holiday and said we made the right
decision…and he ordered the MRI today. So hopefully we will know something
soon.

Candi
YaYa to Bryan

This has been the LONGEST weekend! Between being anxious about what is going on with Bryan and then our own drama, finally good news!

Over the weekend I talked to Brandy several times and she expressed concerns most of us parent’s with dwarf children echo at some point in their lives. Medical specialists who are so proficient in what they do that they are unwilling too look at any other option or talk to anyone else with more knowledge.

Understand, I am not underestimating these doctor’s abilities. In the end, Bryan may need surgery, at some point. But looking at the information Brandy gave me about Bryan’s head size and demeanor over the last six months, had those of been Knoah’s, I would have rejected the surgery. Bryan’s head size hasn’t jumped percentile’s, he is staying on his curve for Achondroplastic children. Today, he still remains in the 48th percentile. He isn’t showing any signs of Hydrocephalus as far as his behavior. His fontanel is soft, they can feel Bryan’s heartbeat through it. All good signs.

I was told to watch for a jump in Knoah’s head size. For example, at 6 months, Knoah was at 50cms, today he is at 54cms. A slight increase but not alarming. He remains within his curve, although he is moving into another percentile. This is why we have to watch it.

Some of the signs you watch for are irritability, headaches, sleepiness, bulging fontanel (soft spot), sunsetting of the eyes (basically, the child will move their eyes downward and they may or may not move back into a normal position).

Some Neurosurgeon’s see a large head and it causes concern, as it should, but in Achondroplastic individuals, a large head is the hallmark for Achondroplasia. Each person is different. Some people will have a smaller cranium that other person, but it will still be larger than an average height person.

That is why we use a different growth chart to measure their progress. If you click this highlight, there is a chart that has the head size growth chart. PRINT IT OUT, if you don’t have one! It also has growth charts for boys and girls as far as height, weight, etc. Print the whole booklet out. Give it too all of your child’s doctor’s. Even the geneticists if they don’t have one.

You are the parent. You are your child’s advocate!

An old wives saying is “Babies are not born with a book.” Well, in our case, they were! That works to our advantage!! We know when to expect certain milestones, we know what is abnormal and what is common. We know what medical complications can arise and what to look for. Read it over and over again!

Bryan avoided surgery because his mother and Ya Ya knew what the doctor said to them didn’t seem right. Brain surgery! This isn’t just removing a splinter, it’s Brain surgery!

When Bryan has his MRI, one of the things his doctor is going to look for is Stenosis of the Foreman Magnum (FM). If Bryan’s FM is narrower than most, the surgery he will need is called Decompression. Decompression surgery is one of the most common surgery individuals with Achondroplasia have.

In stenosis of the FM or narrowing of the FM, the FM looks like an old fashion key hole. Larger on one end than the other. In people, particularly infants with Achondroplasia, 10% of infants do not survive their first year due to compression of the FM. The reason for this is that the spinal cord in ALL people run through this hole.

*Project* Take your right hand and make an OK sign with your thumb and index finger touching. Take take your left index finger and put it in the center of the OK sign. It looks like a round circle. This is what your FM looks like. Your left index finger represents your spinal cord. The right hand represents the base of your skull. Now, take your right hand and push your thumb and index finger together even more. It should look like a tear drop. This is what the FM looks like in people with Achondroplasia. Put your left index finger back into the center. This is Stenosis of the FM.

If the spinal cord becomes trapped or pinched in the smaller part of the FM, it cuts off the brain’s signal to continue breathing. Thus, infants die due to lack of oxygen. The body doesn’t respond to wanting to breath because it doesn’t know it should.

The FM can also cause an increase in fluid in the brain. The fluid everyone has is spinal fluid. It’s main purpose is to bathe the brain. If the FM is too narrow, fluid can back up and increase the head size. It doesn’t have anywhere to go and isn’t able to be reabsorbed by the body. The head size increases and mimics Hydrocephalus if the FM hasn’t been checked.

Another indication of compression of the FM is extreme hypotonia. In achon’s that exhibit compression of the FM, they will be even farther behind in their gross motor development. Where the average achon usually walks alone without support about 22 months, a child with stenosis of the FM will still be crawling at 28 months. They will be behind.

That is why is EXTREMELY important to read everything that deals with your child’s dwarfism, they are very special child, in more ways than one!

Tonya Sweat @ 10:52 am
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HAPPY EASTER!!

Posted on Sunday 23 March 2008

Happy Easter everyone!

I am taking a little time to update on the happenings here….nothing. ;)

I am making Easter dinner: Ham, Yams, Stuffing, Rolls and Corn. Nothing special.

Yesterday, we took the kid’s to a Easter Egg Hunt downtown, where Jacob and Hannah walked away with a stash of candy! It was too cold and snowy for Knoah to participate, but he seemed to enjoy himself. Then after the hunt, they raffled off brand new bikes!

The kids by the time it towards the end, they wanted to go home. Hannah’s boots got her feet wet (didn’t know it at the time) and she was in full fledge tears! I wanted to stay to see about the raffle, so I figured we could wait a few mintues more.

We were standing there talking when they called off Jacob and Hannah’s age group. I hear ….2079.

2079? Hannah, your 2079….Hannah, that’s you! Hannah that’s you!! Go honey, you got a bike!!

She was stunned!! I was stunned!!

Her new bike is beautiful!

Now that we have eaten Easter Dinner, here are some pics of the family!

Which “Ham” should I cook? They are both about the same size…which one will yeild the most meat? I think the swine Ham will!

Look what the Easter Bunny brought!

Stamps! You know what I will do with these, right?

Little army guys! Dad, they can jump out of my plane like you jumped out of yours!!

What is this?

Look Mom, the Easter Bunny pooped eggs all over the snow!!

He stuffed himself silly!

Hanging out with my big brother!

This is for my Peeps (LOL)

Tonya Sweat @ 2:14 pm
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Prayers for Bryan!

Posted on Thursday 20 March 2008

Please keep Bryan in your thoughts as his family try to get a second opinion for surgery in the morning!!

Pray that Cedars calls to give them the information they need!!!

Update: I finally have a chance to update on what is going on.

I recieved a call from Brandy tonight saying that Bryan’s Neurosurgeon called earlier in day and that Bryan needs to be shunted at 6AM Friday morning. She was obviously upset. His MRI was last week and it shows the normal increase ventricular fluid associated with Achondroplasia. Bryan’s head circumference is 50 Cm’s at 12 months of age.

ALL children with Achondroplasia have “Hydrocephalus” but it’s not traditional Hydrocephalus. I suggested to Brandy and Candi call Cedars-Sinai for a second opinion. By contacting a Neurosurgeon within Cedar’s, they hopefully will get more information. I also suggested that Brandy contact a Geneticist familiar with skeletal dysplasias to get their opinion of his scan.

It seems that Bryan’s current Neurosurgeon, while I am positive he is competent, is unwilling to research or even read the reports and writing of known skeletal dysplasia doctor’s such as Dr. Pauli. Candi on a number of occasions has attempted to give him this information, but he hasn’t wanted to read it.

Placing shunt in children with Achondroplasia, while not unheard of is uncommon. Approximately 10% of children with Achondroplasia will have to be shunted. Some of the symptoms of Non-communicating Hydrocephalus is sun-setting of the eyes, vomiting, increased intracranial pressure, sleepiness and irritability. None of which Bryan has.

One of the things I was told to watch for in Knoah was his fontenelle or soft spot bulging. Also if you put your middle finger (this finger works best as your own heartbeat can’t be felt) on the fontanelle, you SHOULD be able to feel the babies heartbeat. If you can, that is GOOD!
The soft spot at this point in an average height child would be closed, but because children with Achondroplasia has extra fluid, theirs remains open for a while longer. Knoah is 16 months and his is still open. It is closing but I can still place my finger in it.

Brandy and Candi are uncomfortable just doing the surgery. I would be uncomfortable just doing it. I would want a second opinion from physicians who have experience in dealing with people with dwarfism.

I pray that they hear from someone VERY SOON!

UPDATE:This is the latest from Candi:

Thank you everyone for your prayers! We have all Bryan’s MRI results from the beginning and are sending them to Dr. Paul and Cedars. Hopefully we will get some resolution early next week. Bryan is fine - he is laying on the floor laughing with Brandy and I right now. Please keep praying that we will get the right advice for Bryan and he will get what he needs.

You are all just awesome, and we are so grateful to have you all praying for us. I am so gratefull to Tonya for pulling together such a wonderful group of families. God’s hands are guiding us.

Candi
YaYa to Bryan

Just a quick addition…..Brandy is amazed at all the outpouring for Bryan, as am I. She told Bryan, with tears in her eyes today…
“Even people on the other side of the world are praying for you!”
(Thanks Wool’s Mom)
Whether you are on the other side of the world, in our great state of Texas, or somewhere in between, we thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Happy Easter everyone.

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
John 3:16

Candi
YaYa to Bryan

Tonya Sweat @ 8:08 pm
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I’ll take a kick in the gut with a slap in the face, please!

Posted on Tuesday 18 March 2008

I quit.

I officially quit.

What, everything! I am going on strike. I refuse to….

I can’t quit. That’s nice! The latest from the “Drama Factory aka My Life” has thrown us a doozy! Oh, you have to love it! I mean, here you are trying to simply live your life the best you can. Forget the “downers” or “Baby Buns” you have to interact with, but just something at the end of the day going home to your refuge and even that is taken from you.

PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!

It started last Wed, when upon taking Hannah Banana to the doctor’s we find out she has Influenza. OKAY, breathe…it will all be fine. Then Knoah and I get a mild case of the “Blahhh”. OKAY, that’s fine too. Then *Raising my voice because I am so frustrated I am screaming inside my head* THEN, WE FIND OUT THAT IN THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO PROTECT OUR KIDS, SOME………….BLEEP…….BLEEP…… MAY HAVE ACTUALLY CAUSED THEM HARM!!!!!!!!

I realize you have no clue what I am talking about, some of you may. If you know, try not to reference anything specific in your comments…legal reasons…

If you don’t, email, I’ll share.

I’ll be back for a second round. I must gather my thoughts, my mind is racing, as it has been and I have to get up off the floor from the kick in the gut.


Lyrics: Fuel- Had a Bad day again

I had a bad day again
She said I would not understand
She left a note that said Im sorry, i
I had a bad day again

She spilled her coffee broke a shoelace
Smeared the lipstick on her face
Slammed the door and said Im sorry, i
I had a bad day again

And she swears theres nothing wrong
I hear her playing that same old song
She puts me up and puts me on
I had a bad day again

She said I would not understand
She left a note and said Im sorry i
I had a bad day again
Nooo…

And she swears theres nothing wrong
I hear her playing that same old song
She puts me up and puts me on
Oh I had a bad day again

She said I would not understand
She left a note that said Im sorry, i
I had a bad day again
She left a note that said Im sorry, i
I had a bad day

Tonya Sweat @ 2:59 pm
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So all I have to say is….

Posted on Thursday 13 March 2008

“Short people should pray for a return to the Seventies fashion of stack heels, for the power of jealousy depends on how tall you are, the British weekly New Scientist says.” PARIS (AFP)

Knoah’s not going be an angry dwarf! He’s just going to be jealous?

He’s not going to be jealous because he’s PERFECT! What women wouldn’t want to be loved up by a 32 year old Knoah? Such a stud he’ll be! :)

*I also wanted to add In Memory of: has been changed to Angels In Flight! Avery Houston has also been added. She and Theo are frolicking in the garden, watching us all. We have to make them proud!

Tonya Sweat @ 5:59 pm
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Why I LOVE being a MOM! Part 1

Posted on Tuesday 11 March 2008

Renay posted about the reasons she loves about being a Mom! It inspired me to do the same.

Instead of writing it, I had a few hours to myself, so I thought I’d show you.

Everyone, I think has a favorite song that reminds them of their child. For Will and I, this song IS Hannah.

“Meet Virginia”
by: Train

She doesn’t own a dress
Her hair is always a mess,
You catch her stealin’ she won’t confess
She’s Beautiful.

Smokes a pack a day, but wait,
That’s me, but anyway
She doesn’t care a thing
About that hair,
She thinks I’m beautiful
Meet Virginia

She never comprimises,
Loves babies and surprises,
wears high heels when
she exercises
Ain’t it beautuiful
Meet Virginia

Well she wants to be the Queen
Then she thinks about her scene
Pulls her hair back as she screams
“I don’t really wanna be the Queen”

Daddy wrestles alligators
Mama works on carborators
Her brother is a fine mediator
For the president
And here she is again on the phone
just like me hates to be alone
we just like to sit at home
and rip on the President
Meet Virginia, Mmmm…

Well she wants to live her life
Then she thinks about her life
Pulls her hair back, as she screams
“I don’t really wanna live this life”

She only drinks coffee at midnight
When the moment is not right
Her timing is quite, unusual
You see her confidence is tragic, but her
Intuition magic And the shape of her body?
Unusual

Meet Virgina I can’t wait to
Meet Virginia, yeah e yeah hey hey hey

Well she wants to be the queen and
then she thinks about her scene
Well she wants to live her life
then she thinks about her life
Pulls her hair back as she screams
“I don’t really wanna be the queen”
I, I don’t really wanna be the queen
I, I don’t really wanna be the queen
I, I don’t really wanna live this

Tonya Sweat @ 8:10 pm
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