Civility on the internet (and in life)
Thursday, March 29th, 2007I heard a speaker on the radio this morning talking about how, thousands of years ago when mankind lived in small clans, each person knew (and was probably related to) every person they ran across each day.
As a result, greetings were friendly, conversations were civil and constructive. You knew you would have to deal with that person again the next day.
In large part, according to the speaker, that tendency learned thousands of years ago has carried through to the present. We’re still socialized to be pleasant when we greet people and polite and friendly in our conversations.
Somehow, too much of that has been lost in the emerging culture of the internet. From the beginning of internet discussion groups, message boards, chat rooms, forums, blogs, etc., the culture has encouraged anonymity. While hiding behind pseudo names, people seem to think that rude and obnoxious behavior is okay.
One of our bloggers, the LunaPierCook, noted in a post yesterday that well-known blogger and technology expert Kathy Sierra has halted her blog because of death threats and other nasty attacks targeted at her.
You can follow the links from the LunaPierCook’s post to get the details. But be prepared for some disgusting stuff. Lack of civility is one thing; threats to do harm, especially when mixed with sexual undertones, are quite another.
The discussion on our own forums at monroenews.com also get personal at times, and we often discuss whether we should step in and either monitor the forums more closely or ban people when they get nasty.
We don’t want to do that; as soon as we start deleting posts we’ll be accused of censorship, and we genuinely want an open discussion, free to anyone.
I just wish people could behave as if they were members of a small clan - albeit an online clan - and treat people with a little more civility.
Disagreement is great - that’s what opinion forums are for. But getting personal - attacking the speaker instead of responding to the opinion - shouldn’t ever be necessary.
And real threats like the kind experienced by Kathy Sierra have no place in our society, whether online or not.
