R.I.P. imaginary friend
Caitlyn has quite the active imagination. She has a whole slew of imaginary friends, and each one has a name (that she NEVER forgets), a personality, age and car — and even their cars have names (but don’t ask me why)!
Let’s see …..there’s Belli, Blackie, Slidie and — her favorite — Causry. She talks to them at restaurants, yells at me when I “bump” them on the stairs, and plays games with them in the car. On occasion, she will even call them silly or do their voices if I ask her a question about them. Causry is the ringleader and has even surpassed former favorite “Hava.”
We haven’t heard from Hava in a while, so last night at dinner we asked Caitlyn where her buddy has been. She looked at me across the table, put on a serious face and said “Hava is dead.”
WHAT?!!! Totally was not expecting to hear that out of her mouth!! Here’s what she had to say about what “happened” to Hava:
“She was not holding onto her mommy’s hand and she was in the street and shaking and a truck came along and hit her. … Now she’s in Heaven.”
I didn’t know whether to be freaked out by all this or bust out laughing by how matter-of-fact she was about the whole thing. It was just the most random, bizarre thing ever……..
I think I had better keep a close eye on the rest of her imaginary buddies. No telling what she has in store for the rest of them!

January 18th, 2008 at 10:05 am
Maybe she’ll be a movie script writer when she grows up?
January 18th, 2008 at 10:29 am
My mom now refers to the incident as “Hava got run over by a reindeer…..”
January 18th, 2008 at 11:23 am
Poor Hava! Well, at least she still has her other imaginary friends to play with. You better warn them to be careful when crossing the street
January 23rd, 2008 at 10:56 am
I don’t know… they say kids have more connections to the spirit world than adults. Maybe she has a future as a medium?
By the way, I kind of like the name Hava.
January 26th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
I asked her if once if her friends were “angels” and she said: “No mom, they’re HUMANS. Duh!!!!”
Who knows what goes on in that little mind of her’s……….