By Charles Slat ctslat@monroenews.com
Covering the Comair crash 10th anniversary memorial ceremony Tuesday got me to thinking about fate and faith.
It seems when tragedy occurs, some people rationalize it as “God’s will,” or they say “There’s a reason for this.”
As I watched remnants of victims’ families torn and still touched by the disaster Tuesday, I couldn’t imagine this was the will of any good god or that there was a reason for any of this.
Sometimes bad stuff just happens.
Indeed, if there must be an assignable cause, it might be fate, happenstance or coincidence.
Consider Judy Thomas of Brownstown, whose husband, Douglas, routinely drove between Cincinnati and Brownstown as part of his job for Lukens Steel. On that fateful day of Jan. 9, he decided to fly.
Consider Vanessa Davis, whose husband, Geoffrey, not a routine air travel passenger, just happened to be flying on that flight on the couple’s 15th wedding anniversary.
Consider James and Ruth Ogden, who were so proud of their multi-talented daughter, Darinda, the lone flight attendant on the jet. Among her talents was that she was fluent in French. She was hired by Comair partly because they were planning routes to Montreal.
I attribute all this to coincidence, not some larger cosmic plan.
Yet almost all of those who lost relatives in that crash will tell you that their faith shored them up and has helped them cope and move on.
Mrs. Thomas said support from her church was a mainstay. Her pastor was with her and her family at the ceremony Tuesday.
Mrs. Davis, who couldn’t bear to visit the county after the crash, did so for the first time Tuesday. Her husband had been traveling with their minister and she said her faith has been bearing her through this.
The Ogdens wear purple – Darinda’s favorite color – and support a memorial fund in her name for young musicians at Darinda’s church in Kentucky. Mrs. Ogden says she’s sure Darinda knows everything that has gone on since the crash.
So these people, who had little in common but relatives with tickets on the same ill-fated flight, now are bound by both grief and faith, which helps them deal with what fate seemed to deal them.